Many times in my Christian walk have I been faced with a situation where I differ from a fellow Christian over some or other theological truth or principle. I believed I was right, and they believed that they were right.
I have come to the realization that most of the time the issues that we are differing on, whatever it may be, are often not that important.
Surely whether you are right or wrong about what form of baptism is the correct one will not determine whether you will spend eternity with or without God? Whether Jesus returns before, during or after the tribulation will not be that important. What matters is that whatever happens, I will be with Him for ever and eternity.
We all know the following passage of scripture:
“1Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. 2And though I have the gift of prophecy and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing” [1 Cor 13:1-3, New King James version, italics added].
The above passage clearly warns that I can believe and do the right things (know the correct theology and doctrine), can be of strong faith, and do the greatest deeds of charity, but if my motive is not love (in all its various forms), it is all in vain.
God is not so much concerned about the ‘correctness’ of our theology or doctrine. He is much more concerned with the motives of our heart. Are we acting out of love?
Conversely, I believe that, even if a person may be theologically or doctrinally wrong, if he or she has love in their heart, and if that love forms the motivation for what they do, they will still be pleasing to God and enjoy His blessing.
There are many doctrines and theologies that people adhere to – it is a natural result of the centuries over which our faith has developed.
The one truth, however, that we should never differ and compromise on, is that Christ Jesus is the only Son of God, who died on the cross of Calvary, a sinless man, to pay for our salvation, and that faith in Him is the only way to the Father and to eternal life. As long as we both believe and agree on this, the differences we may have over doctrinal or theological issues are not really that important.
One thing I have learned: if the enemy can get us to differ from each other to the point that we leave each other in a state of offense at each other, he has won a major victory, because he has managed to destroy our Christian unity, without which we will never be effective for Christ and the Kingdom of God.